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When You Die, You Look Like Your Choices

Stop waiting, start choosing — Because your legacy is built one decision at a time

4 min readMar 17, 2025

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I read a quote yesterday that hit me like a punch from Mike Tyson:

“When you’re born you look like your parents. When you die you look like your choices.”

That one doesn’t need a lot of explanation. It’s a gut punch of truth. And if it doesn’t make you feel something, I don’t know what to tell you.

Because the truth is, every single choice we make stacks up. Like bricks in a wall. Like footprints leading somewhere. Like a book being written, one word at a time. And when it’s all said and done, the story people tell about you won’t be about what you wanted to do. It’ll be about what you actually did.

So, let’s get real. Right now. What choices are you making? And are they leading you somewhere you’ll be proud of?

The Hardest Truth No One Wants to Hear

Here’s the reality: the life you have right now is a reflection of your past choices. Every win, every failure, every regret — it all came from decisions you made (or didn’t make).

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Rick Martinez
Rick Martinez

Written by Rick Martinez

💡 Creator: The 7 Day Book Writing Challenge™️ 🏋🏻‍♂️ CrossFitter 📚 Bestselling Author 👊🏼 Helping you write your book WICKED fast www.WriteYourFirstBook.com

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